This post was originally posted on August 2, 2019, on a former blog of mine.
I’m part of several Trucker wife groups on Facebook and I’ve been seeing this concept of “Open When” letters being tossed around. It’s a cool idea, somewhat like the Journal, but a little different.
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So the idea is to send your trucker off with some letters to be open up when he feels a certain way or experiences a certain thing. For example… the letter may say “Open when you miss me.” So he would open that letter when he misses you.
I hid a large envelope of 5 letters in Josh’s truck this weekend… So we shall see if he finds them and how this little experiment goes. I tried to hide them in a location I know he goes to every day, but one he wouldn’t go to before I left the truck Sunday night.
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So here are some ideas for “open when” letters to try out…
25 Open When Letter Ideas
- We fight
- You want to hold my hand
- You can’t sleep
- Wish I were there
- You need a kiss
- Are happy or sad
- Need to laugh
- Need a hug
- You’re bored
- You have doubts
- Having a bad day
- You miss me (the kids, a pet, etc.)
- Coming home
- Miss an activity (snowboarding, mountain biking, etc.)
- You’re stressed out
- You feel like crying
- You’re sick
- I’m mad at you
- You’re mad a me
- Feel excited
- On a certain holiday (birthday, St. Patrick’s Day, Memorial Day, etc.)
- You need encouragement
- On a certain weather day (snowy, rainy, sunny, etc.)
- Feel upset
- Want to reminisce
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Do you have other ideas? Add them in the comments below!
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